If you are going to lose weight and keep it off, it is important to see your diet as part of your lifestyle and even something that you enjoy.
It should not be a question of putting yourself through several months of hell in order to lose the pounds. If you do that, you will surely gain it all back as soon as you relax that iron control.
Meal plans should involve plenty of variety. Choose foods that you like as well as experimenting with the full range that your diet allows. A low carb food diet allows steaks and seafoods which I like very much.
And most important, especially if you are not so young, include some physical exercise that you actually enjoy doing.
Sometimes it takes a while to begin enjoying exercise. At first it may be tough to get out there and do it.
But after a while even the most reluctant exerciser usually finds something that they can enjoy doing.
Walking is a good beginning for those who are not used to exercising at all. Talk to your doctor if you are very overweight or suffer from medical conditions, because there may be some things that you should not do. However, walking is fine for most people who are physically mobile.
Swimming and cycling are other types of aerobic exercise that a lot of people enjoy. Cycling can be done on a machine while you listen to music or watch TV.
Swimming can be more difficult just because we may feel very exposed in a swimming costume. If you have your own pool this should not be a problem, but swimming at the beach or in a public pool can take a lot of courage.
Remember that you do not necessarily have to wear just a swimming costume. You can wear a T shirt and shorts. Man made fabrics are often better than cotton because they will not be so heavy when wet.
Another possibility is joining a weight loss swimming program where you can swim with other overweight people. This way you are not likely to be so self conscious. You may find you actually enjoy swimming with others in a group like this.
Start your exercise program gently and do not expect too much of yourself too soon, especially if you are over 40 years old.